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First and foremost, I am seeking a friendcompanion� someone I find interesting, funny, intelligent and funpleasant to be around! As far as me, I am intelligent, have a great sense of humor, a wide range of interests and a great personality! I enjoy reading a variety of genres (including sci-fi, mystery, and biographies), crafting (such as making things from polymer clay, knitting, and a bit of scrapbooking), computer gaming, dabbling in website design, programming killer spreadsheets and spending time with my ren (who are with me part-time).
I�m not terribly concerned with your physical appearance. I do prefer a clean-cut man with short hair sans beardmoustache. It�s actually just no fun kissing a mustachioed man, in my opinion. [Although, this is a minor issue!] As for me, I am overweight (but working on reversing that) so if this bothers you do not bother responding to this posting. Also, if you smoke, do or drink heavily, do not contact me. [A photo of me is available upon request.]
I�m rather fond of really intelligent men, even nerdygeeky as long as they have some semblance of social aptitude. I want someone who can hold a conversation, has a good sense of humor and has his goofy moments! He should also be logical, rational, a person of integrity and honor, and emotionally mature. I'd like someone who is comfortable with who he is and is perhaps quietly self-confident (i.e., not a braggadocio). I'm interested in a relationship built upon honesty, trust and mutual respect. I'm stable, well-adjusted, emotionally mature and seek the same.
I have a fantastic job that I enjoy, an awful sense of direction, and a great deal of curiosity! I enjoy quiet evenings next to a cozy fire with a good bookmovie, day or weekend trips to Seattle, the San Juans, or wherever, etc., but I am not interested in going out to bars to drink and meet people. I like to learn new things and I like to understand things, so if you, for instance, have a hobby that I know nothing about you might find me asking questions about it. This is probably why I tend to enjoy The Discovery Channel and shows like �How It�s Made� and �Dirty Jobs.� I�ve also been enjoying the �Stargate� series and �Numb3rs.� Generally speaking, however, I don�t watch a great deal of t.v.
I am a fiscal conservative politically and an atheist. I don't enjoy debates about politics or religion (although this doesn�t mean I don�t have opinions about various issues). I'm generally willing to consider well-reasoned, rational points of view so long as the person isn't forceful or extremely dogmatic about it. If you are deeply religious andor extremely liberal from a fiscal political viewpoint, we may not play together well. [Although, I do not know for certain�I have some good friends who are extremely liberal and we have great fun together but we just don�t discuss politics (anymore)! We just tend to shake our heads in bafflement at the other�s viewpoints and respect each other�s opinions.]
I do have two wonderful ren and my ex and I share their time. So, there are times when I have my ren with me (ages 14 and 10) but I also have plenty of -free time to offer. While I do not physically wish to have any more ren, I am ok if you already have ren. I like (and love!) my and I enjoy doing things with them.
Addendum: I prefer to date someone who is within a decade of my own age (either + or -). Also, if you are married and merely seeking a dalliance on the side, I'm not the person for you! Finally, if you are only seeking a casual sex encounter, I am also not the person for you!
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