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Local Seeking Local Sub
I'll start off with a quick for anyone who thinks that I seem too nice to be a "true" : I will not act like a unless a sub CHOOSES me as her . Aside from that situation, my intention is to be kind, considerate, respectful, and supportive to everyone that I come in contact with, because that is what I believe in (although I can be a little grumpy with people who really aggravate me). If you can't understand that, then you should talk to somebody else. Having said that, I'm a who is looking for a sub. I'm flexible regarding the type of activity that my sub is interested in: I'm not eager to inflict severe pain, but if my sub is into pain, then I can inflict pain (mild, moderate, or extreme). If my sub does NOT enjoy pain, but enjoys a little embarrassment (or even humiliation), then I can provide that too. If my sub simply likes to feel vulnerable and/or helpless (without pain or significant embarrassment), then I'm okay with that too. The important thing to me is that I like to be in control during sex... it can be a relatively mild dominant-submissive relationship, or it can be a relatively extreme master and slave relationship. Also, I don't like to FORCE anybody to do anything (unless I'm with a sub who specifiy enjoys being to do things against her will), but I like to tease my sub until she's on the edge of orgasm, and then see what I can get her to do (or agree to) in order to "earn" her orgasm... it's fascinating to see how far a woman will push her limits when she is desperate for an orgasm... and it is also fascinating to listen and watch while a woman has a really intense orgasm. ;-) I would be willing to have a casual sexual relationship with no strings attached (if that is what my partner prefers), but my preference would be to have a meaningful and monogamous relationship with a woman who I would treat as an equal at all times except when we are in the bedroom. However, I'm also willing and able to take a more assertive role, and be more in control of my partner's life, if that's how my partner wants to live. I'd prefer to be involved with a woman who is discreet and respectable in public, but kinky in the bedroom... but I don't mind too much if my partner is a little bit wild in public too. ;-) On a side , I REALLY enjoy a good conversation, so I'd prefer to be involved with a woman who is talkative, inquisitive, philosophical, analytical, intelligent, intellectual, etc. (by the way, in my opinion, intelligent and intellectual are NOT the same thing at all). One last thing... I realize that this may sound strange for someone who likes to dominate and control my partner in the bedroom, but sometimes I really like to spoil and pamper my partner too (inside AND outside of the bedroom). I'm a well-educated and financially stable professional, and I'm in good shape (I work out regularly, but I'm not exactly muscle-bound), and there are a significant number of women in my life who say that I'm attractive, so I think that I'm a decent looking guy. I'd be happy to provide some pictures for anyone who is interested, but I didn't want to show my face on my profile because I have a professional job where I work with the public. Message me if you'd like to know more.
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