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Date Night (Part 2: FAQ's)
Q: So you're crazy, right? A: Well, we all have our moments.. Q: Then you must be one of those desperate loser types, right? A: To tell the honest truth, I did go through a period when I needed some validation. . .. But I outgrew that some time ago. I am comfortable with who and/or what I am at the moment. Q: Have you done this before? A: Yep. Q: So you're just after sex. . .. A: Sorry, but that was not a question. Q:What is "Are you just after sex?" A: That's better. Actually I did not mention anything about sex did I? All I said was that you'd be getting home with a smile on your face, and have to come up with an explanation. Sex is but one of many options. If you'd rather go shoot baskets someplace for a couple of hours after dinner, I'd support that if it does not upset your , and it puts a smile on your face. Q: Huh? A: It's more about having the opportunity, isn't it? First of all, you should not be playing at this point, since after all, you are surfing the personal ads, and that means you have already crossed the line.. Secondly, I would say the odds are good that you are not getting all of your needs met. What are those? The needs for attention, affection, a little validation on your part, that you are not currently getting in your life. . . and also, you are probably not getting enough sex either. no one is, if they care to admit it. So the question is: where, if at all, do you draw the second line? At curiosity? At basketball? That is the intriguing question: If you had a couple of harmless, guilt-free hours to spend with a guy, how far would you go? What would you do? Q: So you're some kind of psychologist? A: Nope. Just curious. I like unanswered questions. . . Q: What is with the 45-year olds? Do you have a thing for older women? A: First of all, I am close enough to that age...a bit older, actually.. Here is my theory: At a certain point in a woman's life, when you are after your reproductive age, but before you are too old to give a shit, there is a time when you free to do whatever you want without all of the fear....That is not to say that you don't enjoy a little romance, but it is to say that you can be a little more relaxed about it. I am more about the attitude at this point. Q: You're some kind of smartass... A: Is there more than one kind? Anyway, this is about not about hurting anyone's feelings, and you want out at any time, no matter how far along we get or do not get, just say so. . . I am not out to hurt anybody. Start by clicking the "back" button and getting out of here... I will never know the difference. Q: What if you fall in love at some point? A: That is a bit of a long shot. I've had my vaccinations, but that is yet another unanswered question. . .
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